You are being hypnotised into being poor!

When I trained as a hypnotherapist the main focus was on getting people into trance so you could work with the unconscious mind to help them with their goals.  The unconscious or subconscious mind would kick in when needed and help create that life change.

 Little did I realise that most of my therapy work was going to evolve into the opposite and actually work to wake people up from the daily zombie like trance that effects so many of the population today.

You may not feel hypnotised...well you wouldn’t as you would not know the signs until they are pointed out and it is often amusing to hear people say that they can’t go into trance despite spending the day mostly in one.

 Here is how you can be hypnotised daily.

The mind decides to think about a future or past event. 

It creates a story usually in full colour about that event.

Add sounds.

 Add emotions.

And there you go you have an interactive movie that manipulates how you experienced the past and then acts as a fortune teller for the future, which of course has not happened yet.  So convincing are these images that you create actions in your life to them.

So the mind is a little bit of a liar really, very deceptive and the reason it does this is............................

It believes you are in danger.

The mind wants to protect you, it wants to Mother you so much it will tell you any old porky lie to convince you to not do something as it will make you feel bad.

Bless its little heart.

A great example is that I have in my building a lift. A normal lift that to my knowledge no-one has ever got stuck in or plummeted to their deaths in.

Yet the mind will convince some people not to enter the lift as it is dangerous and they had better take the stairs, hence the oxygen mask waiting at the top for anyone convinced of certain doom by whizzing to the top in a metal box.

Yet interestingly enough we detest liars.  If someone lies to us and they are caught out, the shame heaped on the person can be quite strong.  You feel, they feel bad and promises are made not to lie again.  Liars are known as the lepers in society and we tend to move away from people who have a tendency to bend the truth a lot.

Yet we are more than happy to listen to the manipulator in the head who makes up all sorts of tall stories in order to keep us safe. People tend to lie out of fear anyway and that’s the same as the liar in the mind.

 

Now this liar (bless it) can make you poor. (which is not great right now in this apparent recession)

Yup, how many dreams have been dashed by the liar telling people it will not work or will fail and how terrible the consequences are?  Playing safe is a slow death for many people as life literally just drains away from their mind, body and soul.

Now add to the mix the news.  Yes the news, that daily program or paper designed to keep you informed of the “news” and current events.  This creates more trances as the news tells us what the world is like outside the window and this can be very traumatising for people on the hour every hour in some cases.  The recession I would argue is being created by people being force fed fear on not to spend their lovely money.  “Keep it just in case” the liar and the news will tell you.  “ you could lose your job” the liar reminds you.

Now think about each country with millions of people exposed to that fear daily from the liar and from the media hyping up rather dramatically with Oscar winning reports that are scarier than anything showing at your local cinema.

If you want to get wealthy then it is time to face reality and let the liar begin to rest in peace.

Create an awareness sheet and write down when your mind is lying to you and challenge it and bless it and do what the liar told you not to do.

Now obviously there is a huge difference between gut instinct for real danger and allowing yourself to be hypnotised into believing something is unrealistically dangerous.  Be realistic.

The more you let the liar rest the more you can see the truth and then you can act upon that truth.  It really is a wake up all out of the trances of the mind.

Explore being present

Loving yourself

Ending your war

Loving each moment of your precious life

And anything else you are guided to.

You are worth too much not to be truly wealthy and if the liar says you are not worth much then say “thanks but no thanks” I am worth the same as everyone else in this world.

If there was a bank account in your name that had unlimited wealth in it, would you turn it down because you were not ready to spend even though you were entitled to?

Access your true wealth now and let it begin to grow each day.  I’m not saying it’s easy but it beats wasting the time away with the media or drama filled TV that keeps you nice and distracted from living an amazing life.

It is all choice though and what you do is up to you. 

We all know the consequences of our thoughts and actions. 

War

This is a simple post really that really does refer to the end your war post. 

What we are watching daily on the news is the massacre of innocent people continually due to war. It is not just happening in the Middle East It is happening around the world.  Whilst the Western world fights its war with the economy and jobs are being lost, on the Gaza strip I am observing through the media the daily death toll rising. The lat count was over 600 people have lost their lives due to the aggressive nature of those who wish to fight with violence.

Yes we can feel powerless watching in horror the wars around the world rage with power struggles, hidden agendas and religious and racial intolerance. The list as to why wars are happening are probable to numerous to mention.

If you really want the world to change then you are not powerless at all.  In fact you have more power than you realise and it all does come down to you.

End your war with your self.  War with yourself is exhausting and it creates conflict around us.  On a bigger scale the global consciousness is geared to fight for survival and all this does is keep the wars raging around us.

If you chose peace within you. If you chose to end your addiction to drama and to wanting to fight for injustice then you are creating an energy that spreads like a ripple to all those around you.

The side effects of ending your war are that you can begin to develop an amazing relationship with yourself, love yourself and love those around you with a new perspective and understanding.

No judgement, no victim mentality will affect you any longer. You will create  more true wealth than you can possible imagine and it all comes down to you reconciling and forgiving your self to create a new fresh slate.  Start right now and begin to let it all go.

You can do this.

You can choose to change the world by starting with yourself

Or

You can choose to go back to sleep and moan about how terrible the world is.

Explore now ending your war

You will love it.

Secret to abundance

It is very simple really and the Universe, Masters, Teachers etc have all pointed at this since day one. I wanted to remind you of it since people question all the time how to make their lives better through manifesting.

If you want to manifest the most abundant life of true wealth then the root of creating an amazing life is:

Explore how to love yourself.

When you love yourself you learn to love each moment.

When you start to love the majority of moments that make up the day you are resonating an energy which will bring to you experiences that are beyond words.

The intention to continually explore loving yourself will create paths, journeys, people, experiences that will lead you to fulfilling your intention.

People ask me all the time, how I do it and the techniques I share are all based on that simple truth.

Love is all there is.

What would life be like for you?

What would life be like for you if you:

Were loving each moment?

Are free of game playing, manipulation and drama creating?

Are creating experiences full of rich abundance?

Are feeling energised and happy?

Feel calm and peaceful?

Feel connected and intune with everyone you meet?

Choose your reactions to your experiences?

Realised the truth about the illusions have placed around you and worked with them instead of reacting to them?

Danced with joy at the most phenomenal day you have ever experienced....each day?

Woke up from the trance like state you create every day and became fully present?

Really loved your life so much that you felt the love in your heart so intensely you wondered if it could ever get much better than this and then the next day....it is....

These all may sound too good to be true especially if you are running a cynical program within where you may sneer at some of these.  If you want to experience the above.....then choose to explore waking up and loving each moment.  My next article is a good start.

Life is so amazing and you can have that amazing life.  I witness people claiming it back everyday and that makes my life amazing as I am part of that.

Happy 2009......Lets make it happen.

Time to choose another way for 2009

It has been a while since the last blog, due to being very busy but here is the first of 2009.

If you feel that areas of your life need to change then maybe I can help you.

Are you in conflict with:

Weight?

Anxiety or depression?

Health?

Family?

Well the list could be endless but I have a choice of living that will help you if you choose to experience it.

Here is the choice for you to consider.

END YOUR WAR.

The war has been recycled and created to keep us all battling something, running from something, fearful or angry at something. Religion, politics, families, conspiracies, media etc all keep the war going. Generations of fighting has produced how you feel and the current state of the world today. You are being hypnotised daily into reacting through war like behaviour to situations around you. This is making you ill, this is creating lack of abundance in your life and it is very exhausting.

I have created a therapy program that is designed to end the war within. We can explore your mind to end the addiction to the drama you create in your lives. You can also choose to explore doing this yourself and ask for divine guidance to find the answers to let go of your fight.

Some people do not even know they are fighting, so here are the symptoms and experiences an inner and outer war can create. Have a look to see if you are doing or experiencing any of these:

Impatience, anger, jealousy, fear, arguements, violence, self loathing, wishing you were doing something else, trying to change people, trying, ill health, weight issues, injustice, having to be right, anxiety, depression....I think you get the message.

So how we we begin to end the war?

First of all the the main step to letting it go is to realise consciously that you are fighting something. You have a habit of fighting the present moment, wishing you were doing something else, always thinking about the next thing to do and giving little attention to what you are doing.

Take a deep breath and bring yourself back to the present moment. Look at what you are doing and accept that is what you are doing right now. Enjoy this moment, love this moment...it is yours and yours alone. The energy from loving this moment will create more experiences for you to truly love. So do more things you really love experiencing and embrace that moment fully. For example at this precise moment I am loving the fact I am writing this message to you so you have a choice what you do with this message. I am embracing this moment fully and I can feel the energy coarse through my veins, my body, my mind, my soul this will create more experiences for me to love and so you can do this too.  I am special and so are you. I am amazing and so are you. I am a master of my life and so are you.  No more excuses, enjoy and relax back into enjoying each moment, make it enjoyable whatever you are doing.

If you are ill, do something that helps you to feel better, love that feeling better, take it all in, breath it in and let that experience grow.

If you are depressed or anxious, do something too that lightens your mind and brings peace to the body. Let these experiences grow and manifest more into your life. You are not your illness you are more than that, you are infinite in your power and you can choose to allow that flow within you.

I have been ill, depressed, anxious, a fighter, a drama queen, a manipulator, a control freak, angry, jealous, inflexible, a liar, fat, self loathing, lazy and much more.

I am capable of all of these things again in my life if I choose that path. I chose another way and that way to was to end my war. Yes I slip back now and then but how brilliant is that? How brilliant is the message from the Universe through Negative feelings that I am out of balance and beginning to fight again. If I battle my negativity then the war just grows and voila the volcano of adrenaline is created.

Ending the war ends the adrenaline cycle that keeps you nervous, tense and ready to fight.

Learn to relax, learn to meditate, explore letting go of memories, feelings, fears that continue the fight. You can do this, if you really wanted to. I can help guide you if you need help.

EFT, Emotrance, The Sedona Method, NLP and hypnotherapy can help you release emotional clutter.

Let yourself be guided to what will help you.

If everyone ended their war.....how wonderful would the experience you have on earth be?

No more excuses....(excuses are lies and lies are war mongers)

Begin now, right now to end the war.

You are more than worth it, it is your true heritage, your true life.

There is help all around you. All you have to do is ask.

RE: The main points to change your life

Here is a list of things to explore when you wish to change your life

Simply writing down thank you in advance for whatever you wish to experience will bring it to you.
Its ideal to make the thank you in the present moment.e.g Thank you God for healing my mind and body now.

Knowing the Universe is providing for you equally as it does everyone else and at the right time will help you gain that experience.

Some people keep a gratitude or thank you journal and get amazing results.What can prevent your experience from coming to you is:If you are frightened or have not reconciled what you wish to experience.(easy to ask for money but some people fear what would happen if they get it)

If you keep on asking for your experience.....this creates the feeling of lack and not quite there yet.

Frustration that you have not had your experience and asking where it is.(instead explore yourself to see if you have any inner blocks preventing your experience)

If you try and manipulate the Universe (saying thanks for something you arent actually grateful for or not really believing it will come but saying it anyway)

If you lack faith or see the universe as not giving equally to everyone.
(if you see the universe creating victims or victors then its easy to fall into the victim camp if you are lacking)

Other aspects are:

Present moment awareness

Allow your attention to fully focus on your thank you request or gratitude statement, remaining in the present moment has huge benefits for creating in this life.

I found that the statement - "what am I fighting" is very useful when I can feel resistance to what I am currently experiencing and ending the fight helps to remain more present, aware and creating beautifully.

Know thyself - Explore who you are and when you are resonating from knowing and remembering who you truly are then your experiences fall into place all in perfect harmony.

You are the creator - You are the creator of your amazing world and every thought, feeling and action is manifesting your reality.

What are your core beliefs? How do you see the world? How do you see other people? How do you see yourself? Beliefs form a filter on how you view and feel about your experiences. If your core beliefs are creating a negative view of aspects of your life then working on them would be a favourable priority.

Heal your heart - Heal and release old wounds and beliefs from the heart. Reconciling and releasing old emotional clutter is a must.

Thou shalt not want the credit crunch

You would think that the media must be doing well at the moment with all the headlines of fear around the credit crunch!

Actually newspapers sales are dropping and sadly only the most fear creating ones are managing to survive. The Daily Mail and The Sun with their sensational headlines still attract people to them like flies. Though why are people buying a paper when they can read it for free online?

I have been asked my a few people on how to beat the credit crunch spiritually. So here is my top ways to change your world with more abundance in all areas of your life.

Wanting something creates the feeling of not having and lack within us, realising what you do have is a powerful way to attract more things to be grateful for into your life. The best way to do this is to start small and write a journal of all the things you have done in the day that brought you or someone else something. If you feel you have nothing then you could remain in the mindset and experience until you realise you may have your health, some coins in your pocket, the love of a friend, pet etc. its easy to take for granted what happens during the day, this helps you too realise how abundant you are.

Gratitude is the key to abundance. Thanking the Universe in advance and knowing that you have it coming in its own time is a powerful act of creation.

Have faith it will come, being impatient will just create a world of lack and frustration.

The Universe cannot be manipulated into providing you with your dreams and desires so dont even try, if you notice you have a feeling of manipulation behind your thoughts then stop them right there.

Start small with your thanking in advance. This week I thanked the Universe for my win in the Euromillions and I knew i would win some money. I got my partner to do this too and we both recieved emails from the Lottery telling us of our winnings. They were not life changing amounts but they were gratefully recieved and made me smile.
I also thanked in advance this weekend for the weather to allow our guests to explore Brighton.
The rain held off and we had a great weekend, a very abundant weekend for us all!

The more you continue with building your feelings of gratitude the more that you will see the results, this will strengthen your belief and faith in the Universe.

Remember that if you believe in a Universe where there are good and bad forces out to make life hard or easy this will create that experience, of victim or victor.
The Universe does not single us out for negative or positive experiences, there is no evil force making life difficult for anyone. It is all our creation and we can change things in our world very quickly by changing our beliefs.
If we see the Universe as one, with energy that flows within us and around us guided by our thoughts to create our reality then we are empowered to do just that....create.

You have everything you need to create the most amazing experiences here on Earth.

Go within yourself (learn to be still and meditate in a way that suits you)
Or go without...........

Be desciplined at keeping your journal as this will create that change and if in a few months you find yourself not bothering......well you couldnt want an amazing life that much can you?